Wednesday, 25 April, 2001, 18:44 GMT 19:44 UK

Do Women Use Deceit To Keep Men Monogamous? Security for women, Sex for men Are Basis for Monogamy

To love, honour and deceive

By BBC News Online correspondent Mark Ward

Long-term relationships are fundamentally dishonest. And it's all the fault of females.

Scientists claim that monogamous relationships among many species, including humans, only persist because females have found a way to disguise whether they are fertile.

The researchers claim that by offering sex anytime, but no clues as to whether they will conceive, females trick males into hanging round for a long time.

The evolution of this deception is the only reason that monogamy has developed.

Sexual deception

New Scientist reports that two zoologists claim to have uncovered the dishonest heart of every faithful relationship.

Magnus Enquist of Stockholm University and colleague Miguel Girones from the Netherlands Institute of Ecology have been modelling the development of monogamous relationships and claim that the state only develops when females start deceiving males about their fertility.

 

In many species females often advertise their fertility with visual or chemical cues and, as a result, only suffer the amorous attentions of males when they are likely to conceive.

They typically avoid too much sex because it takes energy and leaves them at the risk of contracting disease.

This behaviour also helps males decide who to mate with, and when they can move on and try to spread their genes elsewhere.

In many other species, such as humans, birds and porcupines, females hide their fertility and so keep males hanging round on the off-chance that they will conceive.

Roguish behaviour

This deception also discourages males from seeking other mates because they are just as likely to be fertile as the female the male has shacked up with claims Mr Enquist.

The pair tested their theory in a mathematical model and found that males only stopped their roguish bachelor lifestyle when females start hiding their fertility.

"Classical explanations of sexual behaviour always focus on the male," Mr Enquist told New Scientist.

"But this gives stronger focus on the woman."

Source: http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/english/sci/tech/newsid_1296000/1296607.stm


Wednesday April 25, 2001 4:03 PM ET

Women stay monogamous for security, Men stay for sex

LONDON (Reuter) - Women stay in monogamous relationships for security and men stay in them for sex, a science journal said on Wednesday.

``It's a cynical view of human relationships, but researchers now say it is the driving force behind the evolution of monogamy -- and women started it,'' New Scientist magazine said.

In most species, females only have sex when they are fertile and males know through visual and chemical cues when the time is right. When it is not, males look elsewhere.

But in birds, porcupines and humans, females have sex whether they are fertile or not, making it more likely that the males will stick around because fertility is no longer an issue.

``There is a search cost. It takes some time to find a female,'' Magnus Enquist of Stockholm University told the magazine.

Enquist and his colleague Miguel Girones of the Netherlands Institute of Ecology in Nieuwersluis developed a mathematical model to test their theory. They found that monogamy is often the top choice when fertility is hidden, even among males who are used to having many partners.

``Classical explanations of sexual behavior always focus on the male. But this gives stronger focus on the woman,'' said Enquist.


Sex, lies and monogamy

At the heart of all long-term relationships lies a fundamental deception - disguised fertility

Exclusive from New Scientist magazine

Women only stay with men for security, and men only stay with women for sex. It's a cynical view of human relationships, but researchers now say it is the driving force behind the evolution of monogamy - and women started it. By offering sex all the time, females in monogamous species disguise whether they are fertile and trick males into sticking around.

In most species, females only have sex when they are fertile. This is because sex takes energy, and carries the risk of disease. But it also means males can easily tell which females are fertile, so they don't waste time on mates that won't get pregnant.

Indeed, males usually give females no help in raising their offspring. "The male strategy is to stay with the female for as long as she is fertile, and then to leave," says zoologist Magnus Enquist of Stockholm University.

But in some species, including birds, porcupines and humans, the girls have wised up. By cutting down on visual and chemical cues, and by having sex all the time, they stop males from telling whether they are fertile. "The male has no cue," says Enquist. "All he can see is the behaviour of the female."

Once males are blind to a female's condition, he says, it's no longer worth their while chasing lots of partners, because the one they're with is as likely to be fertile as any other. "There is a search cost. It takes some time to find a female."

Female focus

Although this idea makes intuitive sense, until now it was a mystery whether the trick works. Normally, a male choosing a stable relationship over a philandering lifestyle would have fewer offspring, putting him at an evolutionary disadvantage. Would women hiding their fertility by offering sex continuously be enough to tip the balance?

Enquist and his colleague Miguel Girones from the Netherlands Institute of Ecology in Nieuwersluis decided to investigate. They created a mathematical model to test the theory, and found that under certain conditions, monogamy is the preferred option. Even in a population where males were used to having many partners, if females started to conceal their fertility, the males settled down into long-term partnerships.

"Classical explanations of sexual behaviour always focus on the male," says Enquist. "But this gives stronger focus on the woman."

Evolutionary biologist Anders Møller from the CNRS, France's centre for scientific research in Paris, agrees. "This is driven by females," he says. "When ovulation becomes concealed, the males stay with the females longer."

Best of the bunch

But animal behaviour expert Mike Siva-Jothy of Sheffield University argues that tricking males into being monogamous isn't the only reason for females' high sex drive. Having lots of sex with lots of different males might ensure that at least some of their offspring were fathered by good-quality mates.

Although this idea doesn't fit with the traditional view of monogamous societies, Siva-Jothy points out that even in species where pairs bond for life, the females cheat. "When avian biologists went out and looked at the DNA profiles of the offspring, they found that everyone was having a romping time," he says.

But so long as females can fool males into thinking they are being faithful, their strategy of hidden fertility will still work. "They have to be cryptic because they don't want their partner to find out," says Siva-Jothy.

Source: http://www.newscientist.com/


In relationships men want sex, and women security

By Robert Uhlig
Telegraph Technology Correspondent

UK Daily Telegraph

AT the heart of all long-term relationships lies a fundamental deception, scientists say today. Women stay with men for security, and men remain with women for sex.

Researchers in Holland and Sweden say in New Scientist that the deception is the driving force behind the evolution of monogamy. By offering sex all the time, they say, females in monogamous species, such as humans, birds and porcupines, disguise whether they are fertile and trick males into staying.

The result is that men haplessly become monogamous, unable to move on to a new partner because they cannot determine whether their most recent coupling has resulted in pregnancy. Although it intuitively makes sense, scientists had no explanation why men were mainly monogamous, whereas males in most species seek to mate with as many females as possible to maximise the number of children they father.

Usually, a male choosing a stable relationship over a philandering lifestyle would have fewer offspring, putting him at an evolutionary disadvantage. Now, Magnus Enquist, a zoologist at Stockholm University, and Miguel Girones of the Netherlands Institute of Ecology have made a mathematical model proving that under certain conditions monogamy makes more sense than sleeping around.

Prof EnquistIn said most species, females only had sex when they were fertile because it took energy and risked disease. "The male strategy is to stay with the female for as long as she is fertile, then leave." This meant that males could easily tell which females were fertile to avoid wasting time on mates that would not conceive.

Males usually gave females no help in raising their offspring. But humans, birds and porcupines were more sophisticated, Prof Enquist said, because the females did not use visual or chemical clues to indicate when they were fertile. Instead, women had sex at any time to prevent men from telling when they might be fertile.

Once males were blind to a female's condition it was no longer worth their while chasing lots of partners, because the one they were with was as likely to be fertile as any other.

Source: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/

 

 

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